There will be a few times in your life when all your instincts will tell you to do something, something that defies logic, upsets your plans, and may seem crazy to others. When that happens, you do it. Listen to your instincts and ignore everything else. Ignore logic, ignore the odds, ignore the complications, and just go for it.
Remember When (Judith McNaught)
It’s better to have nobody, than to have someone who is half there, or doesn’t want to be there.
Once you lose someone it is never exactly the same person who comes back.